Wednesday, May 02, 2007

Diversity & Respect

I've been very busy over the past while with helping to plan a Diversity Conference at my work. It is going to be a fantastic event and the theme is "Diversity as our Future … Equity as our Potential", which for me really speaks of where it is at.

As I think about Diversity, I think of it in a much broader context as some of my colleagues at the planning table. I am thinking not of each of the identified groups (visible, gender, sexual orientation or ability), I am thinking of us each as unique individuals.

For me diversity is about respect.

It is about seeing the individual for who they authentically are, where they have come from, their hopes, dreams and aspirations for who they can become.

To look at their beliefs, values and attitudes and become curious about them.

Respecting them does not mean you have to agree with them.

Respecting them is recognizing this is a meaningful aspect of this other individuals life in which by learning about it can enrich our own. Or at least broaden our horizons and create awareness.

This can be taken to all areas and aspects of life. To embrace and respect another persons beliefs, traditions, lifestyle is simply that. Ask the questions, do the research, come out to learning events that will help you know something you didn't know before.

And RESPECT each other, don't impose your beliefs on others or your disapproval of another persons life, this ends up promoting ignorance, hard feelings, bigotry and hatred.

I know this is not the type of world I wish to continue living in. Person by person we can change this. Stand up and speak up in those situations where you feel you need to.

Those times when a group is gathered and someone makes a demeaning remark or tells an inappropriate joke, don't just laugh uncomfortable, do something, say something or approach the individual after the fact. 9 times out of 10 you weren't the only one there who may have been offended by it.

It all comes back to speak your truth, be clear and trust in who you are inside, your authentic self and don't be afraid to step out of the box or swim against the current. Doing so with encourage others to do what is meaningful for them. And our world changes, bit by bit, person by person.

Tomorrow is a new day... and there is always more.

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